In His Own Words
About him
People should get to know me because I’m curious, thoughtful and genuinely interested in how people think. I enjoy good conversation, solving problems, and bringing a practical yet positive perspective to life. I’m ambitious without taking myself too seriously, and I value honesty, humour and meaningful connections. Whether it’s exploring Edinburgh, discussing big ideas or simply enjoying a relaxed evening, I’m someone who makes an effort and appreciates the same in return.
About his ideal match
My ideal match is curious, kind and emotionally mature, with a good sense of humour and a genuine interest in life. Someone who enjoys meaningful conversation but also knows how to relax and have fun. They’re independent, honest and open-minded, with their own passions and ambitions. I’m drawn to someone who communicates clearly, treats people well and doesn’t take themselves too seriously. Bonus points if they enjoy exploring new places, discovering great food and turning ordinary moments into memorable ones.
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About him
Country of origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 4" (163cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district EH4 (Edinburgh) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
27 - 40 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 6" (168cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Intelligent; Realistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Silver |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Business |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch sport |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Motoring; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Boxing; Cricket; Extreme sports; Football (Soccer); Golf; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; German; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Very |