In Her Own Words
About her
I’m Vanessa, 67, and enjoying this chapter of life with curiosity and a sense of humour. I like keeping things simple and positive — a walk, a chat over coffee, discovering new interests, or spending time in the garden. I’m thoughtful, loyal, and a good listener.
I love to walk my dog and meet new people. I especially love spending time with my grandchildren who are so funny. I enjoy reading, going to the cinema, playing card games, scrabble and especially love visiting new places eg National Trust properties, museums, galleries. I try to 'educate' myself each day by listening to assorted podcasts on random subjects.
I’m not looking for drama or intensity — just someone who enjoys good company and appreciates life’s quieter joys.
About her ideal match
My ideal match would be someone who has a sense of fun, enjoys similar activities, is intelligent and a good conversationalist. Someone who is ready to move on with their life. Someone who values kindness and is happy to see where things go.
What would work is living fairly close to the New Forest in Hampshire.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southampton (Hythe), Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SO45 (Southampton) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
60 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 1" (186cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Philosophical |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Instrumental; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Crime; History; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Meditation; Politics; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Indian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |





