In His Own Words
About him
I am a quiet, calm, kind, honest, decent human being who treats women with respect, kindness and dignity .
I love working part time in our amazing NHS , doing volunteering work helping children with their reading.
I’m a glass half full kind of guy!
About his ideal match
Looking to meet a kind, caring, honest and decent likeminded woman to enjoy life in the UK and travelling abroad.
A fun loving woman with a good sense of humour who shares a love of books, travelling and watching sports would be a plus but not essential
A woman who looks at the positives in life and doesn’t dwell in the past
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About him
Country of origin: |
India | |
Location: |
Liverpool, Merseyside, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
55 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 11" (149cm) - 5' 11" (181cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Black/African descent; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Well-behaved; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch sport |
TV programmes: |
Dramas; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Athletics; Badminton; Cricket; Field Hockey; Football (Soccer); Snooker; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |