In Her Own Words
About her
I have a good brain and a good body, and love to use both! I'm open-minded, energetic, curious and confident.
I'm mad about wildlife, wordles, fascinated by people, love poetry and science.
Looking for connection - authentic, trusting, non-judging and to see, hear, understand each other.
Would you join me in a heart to heart chat, or soaking in the bath, a countryside walk, reading on the sofa, sharing random thoughts, happy to agree to disagree
Being camera shy, the photos are when I'm caught unawares at a dance - in reality I'm not always in a dress, I love my jeans too!
About her ideal match
Can you be reliable, solid, dependable, my rock?
Can you be aware of the balance between talking and listening?
Do you enjoy batting ideas around, pondering the whys and wherefores, but at the same time you're allergic to dogma?
I'm looking for a someone to cherish, care for, support, smile at and about, know deeply and still be surprised by.
Within a 45 minute drive please!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Thame, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Welsh | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX49 (Watlington) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 67 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; Filipino / Tagalog; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Hebrew; Italian; Malay; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Serbian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish; Welsh; Other | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Dance; Hiking; Ice Skating; Walking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |






