In His Own Words
About him
Just a very straight forward person looking for a relationship to share life experiences with and be of good company. What that entails is open to interpretation
I like to enjoy my partners company and make the effort so that they enjoy mine. I work very hard so we can afford to have great memories and shared moments. Sometimes failed moments but we get over these together.
I am a new-fashioned guy which incorporates all the good old values delivered in a modern way.
I am easy going and just looking for a partner that is confident in what they want & enjoy life whatever that entails, highs, hopefully few lows.
Please do not state that you are happy with your life and that you just want a companion to make it perfect. What a contradiction of words.
Be honest you are not currently happy!!. Your dog , horse, friends, children cannot give you the feeling of contentment that you desire and deserve where as a a companion can . I do not want to be considered a 2nd to a cat
My words may be controversial but it’s a conversation header that just may be different to stimulate the juices.
They may also rile you to such an extent you want to take issue and counter my views.
if you send me a message, ask me a question you cannot put in your bio or ask a friends
I think about the lines of the verse, Do not go gentle into that good night, old age should burn and rave at close of day, Rage, rage against the dying of the light. This is a line from a letter I sent to the electric board after another power cut. It just happens to be a famous poet as well.
In essence the poem infers get the most out of life each day, fight for life enjoyments. I am seeking someone who wants a partnership and fulfilling relationship. Someone who wants to share a reasonably active life including day to day events.
I am not looking for a pen/text friend or someone who is more interested in using the date site to validate how they look and who lack any capability of holding a conversation without the capacity to consider other views.
About his ideal match
My ideal match is someone who is breathing. Who makes an effort to be in a loving intimate partnership. has their own interest's sometimes not all times. Sharing most things, not all things.
Looking for someone for you not your chidren. Ask were you so prescriptive previously.
Ideal they will be balanced give and take, not overly controlling, measured. accepting some differences. able to change with the times. Tolerance as its important as we start new relationships .
I would hope my partner would love travel, humour, friendship healthy relationship. which means including all aspects . Stop pretending it doesn’t matter we all know, it does . Cuddle and laugh, daily.
I am active and chilled and like hot sun & beach holidays. I do not ski but ok if it’s your thing. I enjoy just walking, the coast, visiting, culture locations National trust, theatre concert gigs . sport, but it’s not the sport it’s the company sharing the event I like.
I do not want to list everything, save some info if we talk
I like to use my mind, dangerous with humour, can be very flirty, tactile actions to show my affections. Yes, I will sneakily squeeze your bum, kiss your cheek, sometimes both cheeks. push boundaries, big hugs, spoons hopefully you will return the compliment .
I do have a nice bum. I know self-praise and all that, but happy to take another person’s view, opinion and feedback. Comments from my partner are always welcome.
Sometimes I can be very serious . It was the worst 24 hrs of my life. I would like to meet someone who cannot sleep on an argument . Why ruin two days or more of precious time
I like long term relationships because both people must work at them to stay fresh. I work on the principle you can do one thing with a million people, or you can do a million things with one person. I am the latter of the two. It also keeps you busy.
Loyalty is very important to me. I expect the same from a partner.
I am available for real conversation on a of try before you buy a new outfit basis😊
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Newmarket (Sawbridgeworth), Cambridgeshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Norfolk (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
51 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 11" (149cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Shy; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
It has its moods; Disappearing; It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read magazines regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; History; Travel |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Documentary; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Music |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Hiking; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Rugby; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
