In Her Own Words
About her
There is so much about my fate that I cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction. I can decide how I spend my time, whom I interact with, whom I share my body & life & money & energy with. I can choose how I'm going to regard unfortunate circumstances in my life - whether I will see them as curses or opportunities.
I am a kind & considerate person - expecting nothing less in return. I appreciate a man who knows how to treat a woman, from start to finish. Courtesy, manners & politeness cost nothing after all ...
I am looking for a friend, a soul mate, a sensitive being who I can relate to & communicate with - on all levels. Despite my knowledge of Picasso starting and ending with Paloma's perfumes, and my appreciation of Moore restricted to Rogers' last performance, I am a nice person when you get to know me! And, if you already feel "the gulf between us is a bit too wide to be easily bridgeable" - then please do not contact me. Unbelievably, it's already been said ...
I have no time for liars, cheats, bully's or control freaks. And, if you remain "attached" to a past relationship, I am not the woman for you ...
I have a tendency not only to see the best in everyone, but to assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential.
People tend to think that happiness is a stroke of luck, something that will descend like fine weather if you're fortunate. But happiness is the result of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, & sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly...
I am looking for a most charming, handsome, irresistable man with the rare gift of making me feel I am the only person in the room. However, if you're abusing the site for reasons known only to yourself, please don't waste my time - or yours ...
One last thing, I don't ski or hike ...
About her ideal match
in no particular order:
Remembers to call / arrive on time.
Doesn't think the world revolves around the pub.
Is capable of maintaining personal hygiene.
Cleans & flushes the toilet after use.
People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other's personalities. Who wouldn't? Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person. But that's not the clever trick. The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner's faults honestly & say, 'I can work around that. I can make something out of it.'? Because the good stuff is always going to be there, & it's always going to pretty & sparkly, but the **** underneath can ruin you.
Are you capable of such?
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Chichester (Rustington), West Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
West Sussex (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Aries; Taurus; Cancer; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Music Channels; News; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Reading; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Horse Riding; Scuba diving; Shooting; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Soul to Soul: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |