pinkfish

51 – Esher, Surrey, England

Never been married, wonder what's it like!

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Esher, Surrey, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
51
Star sign:
Pisces
Height:
5' 5" (165cm)
Body type:
Curvaceous
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Green
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Ask me later
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Occasionally
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Christian / Protestant

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in Europe
Location:
Within 10 miles of postcode district KT8 (East Molesey / West Molesey)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
44 - 59
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 6" (199cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally; Regularly
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian; Other
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

EEK! This is the scary bit of dating websites - the profile. Phew, deep breath. Cue dramatic music perhaps.............?!
Photo just uploaded - why do none of the photos of me look like me? Or do I just not really like photos of myself, hmmm?!
My last serious relationship was a very long time ago with a couple of not-so-serious partners in between. I spent the best part of a quarter of a century working in the Casino business in Central London. It is an industry that is diverse, mostly misunderstood & great fun, unlike any other business in many ways but pretty well superficial on most levels really. Then about 3 years ago I saw the light (tah dah!) No regrets & I am currently a volunteer for a local charity and carer. Something I find rewarding, not in a "wow I'm so good" way. More a "give something back" way. It's given me a greater insight into the local community that I've lived in for the past 18 years & wanted to get to know better. I'm lucky enough to live around a beautiful area with lots of green space so I cycle regularly, not at break-neck speeds, just a leisurely trundle through local parks & down the towpaths.
I don't have a lot of spare time but I do have a network of friends that I go to great lengths to keep in touch with. Evenings are spent catching up with my mates, checking out new recipes, quality T.V & a few crafty things(!!!) I do really like to eat out in restaurants with good company, good food & a glass or two of wine followed by a cuddle up on the sofa - an ideal evening!
How my friends would describe me? Well apparently I'm "nanny mcphee" always got the bit you need when you need it, loyal, kind, a wonderful friend, bright, a bit nutty - in a nice way!!, undervalued, perceptive, amazingly positive, adorably naive, attractive, curvaceous. Lonely. Oh & one said "hard work to get to know, but so worth it when you do!" But that's not necessarily in any particular order!!!

About her ideal match

Isn't it easier to describe what you don't want in a match???? But seriously there are a couple of factors that I consider to be ideal. Honesty and trust. Everything else can be dealt with as & when it occurs but without those two its all a bit pointless I reckon.
I'd like someone who is relaxed with the simpler things in life but able to take in their stride a situation out of their "comfort zone." Someone who's attentive without suffocating, decisive without being bullish, caring, amusing, glass-half-full type, considerate, manly, emotionally mature & able to communicate, does nothing obsessively to the exclusion of anything else..........
I'm not anti smoking - I smoke occasionally myself - but so long as its outside!! I like a drink but not a drunk! I enjoy sports but not excessively.
An ideal date for me would include food somewhere along the line. Not necessarily gourmet cuisine could be a ham roll on a bench somewhere watching the world go by.....

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More about her

Personality
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Time
Personality traits:
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium; Straight; Curly; Wild; Well-behaved; Out of control; It has its moods
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Classical; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Cult Classics; Drama; Mystery
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Voluntary work; Woodwork
Sports:
Archery; Backgammon; Badminton; Bowling; Bowls; Boxing; Cricket; Cycling; Dance; Darts; Gymnastics; Pool; Rugby; Shooting; Swimming; Tennis; Triathlon
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Chinese; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
I check in once a day
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Fish
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Power
Turn-offs:
Long hair
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
Rarely
Dream home:
Other
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Soul to Soul:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Very