80schild

39 – Edinburgh, Central, Scotland

Heart of gold single dad looking for inspiration from new like minded women

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Edinburgh, Central, Scotland
Gender:
Male
Age:
39
Star sign:
Aries
Height:
5' 11" (180cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Hazel
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Further education
Occupation:
Financial services
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Christian / Other

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district EH19 (Bonnyrigg)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
25 - 35
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 4" (194cm)
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I always finish last,........... That's what they say about 'Mr Nice Guy' so i guess that puts me right at the back of the field!!
If you read something else into that then perhaps it's time to put down that currently popular fiction trilogy!

Curiously, i'm not looking for romance, not initially anyway. I am at a point where i'd like to meet a girl who is similar to me and that i can relate to. I guess a friendship with possibilities would be first up however there is always the proviso that sometimes that something special finds you regardless. Just a get to know you date and if anything develops from there...

I have the patience of a saint, a heart of gold and a good sense of humour, at least so i'm told. I'm very easy to get on with and generally a happy go lucky type of guy. I'm very thoughtful and considerate, a deep thinker but at the same time can be spontaneous and live in the moment. I can be quite witty, have a cheeky wee smile and have the dimples to get away with the little quipps.

I've got the 2 most amazing boys imaginable and every minute i have with them changes who i am for the better, they are incredible. I love being a dad but don't envisage living the single life too much longer, hopefully not anyway.

I have a huge love of live and have a whole lot of love to give. I'm a very deep guy and eventually will be looking for that someone special. I'd love to hear from you if you want a no pressure get to know you chat.

I've not put a photo up yet but if someone wants to meet up i can bring one with me.

About his ideal match

OK, so i said i would re-visit this so here goes...

She is genuine and has heart. She is caring and thoughtful. She has a sense of humour that fits with mine and we make each other laugh so much. She has her own mind and isn't shy of saying so. She values family and friends and is appreciative of others. She has a sense of independence and respects mine. We bounce off each other and we know what makes each other tick. We are very close, a team that has each others backs. She is surprising and full of life, she's cheeky and adventurous. She's romantic and affectionate. She can turn me on with a look. She has lots of smiles and i'd know each one. She lets me know what i mean to her and know's i'm her man.

So yes, it's a bit much i guess. I'm just not ready to settle, not ready to comprimise. I want that connection we probably all want and i've not given up on that ideal. I want to share in her life like she shares in mine. I want to be happy, genuinely beaming smile happy, if something goes well for her. If she is away somewhere and passes that exam and i get her text i'd have that sense of acheivement and be made up for her.

Too much?

& as if i could forget she needs, in time, to be comfortable with my boys and want to share in some of our adventures, get to know them and be a good role model and influence. She wouldn't be my ideal someone special if in the fullness of time she wouldn't be prepared to have 'cinema nights' with me and the boys from our makeshift pillow fort or be player no. 4 on the Wii.

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Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Green
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Medium
Eyesight:
I wear contacts
Body hair:
Average
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Blues; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock
Reading:
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns
Interests:
Healthy living; Music
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Basketball; Football (Soccer); Golf; Pool; Running; Snooker; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; Weight training
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time online:
Once or twice a week
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
Ask me later
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Dream home:
House in the suburbs
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Feelings about using Soul to Soul:
Hopeful; Curious
Honesty:
Extremely