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Softly1

69 – Royston, Hertfordshire, England

Still crazy after all these years .......

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In Her Own Words

About her

Warm, kind, loyal, generous, fun, articulate, patient with feet on the ground. I am easy going and have a wicked sense of humour. Reliable in company. I have three grown up children, a full time job, a car that starts, am not needy, I like my own space sometimes and respect that in others.

If I am to be honest here and not trot out a whole skip load of cliches and half truths of how one used to be read on.

My idea of a nightmare holiday is anything related to danger, so skiing, white water rafting, hang gliding, bungee jumping, scuba diving do not move me. I also don't much care for stomping about on long, pointless walks, happily I live in a world where motorised transport has been invented. I don't mind a stroll along the prom or a gentle perambulation to a local beauty spot or (cliche alert) cosy hostelry!

I love watching all sport and am very happy to attend a rugby match, cheer on the hockey team, have an afternoon at a kart meet or a motorsport club day. I also enjoy the arts, a live show, museums and history generally.

I'm very gentle, or maybe a coward, but I don't like horror films, or anything that involves gratuitous violence, perversely I adore disaster movies. If they involve terrible acting and cranky effects even better. I don't like rom coms, like isn't like that, and more often than not there's not a happy ending. I also like a good old skool murder mystery.

My hobbies include recycling furniture and gardening. I'd like to go to more West End shows, however, rocking up alone looks a bit sad!

There an honest snapshot of me. My pic is probably five years old, as I don't have a portrait in the attic, I have aged, like we all do! I'm happy to provide present situation if asked.

If you have read this far you have my every admiration so I thank you for your tenacity and bid you a fond farewell.

About her ideal match

No shopping list so nothing set in stone. I try not to judge a book by the cover; although human nature dictates that chemistry is important. Someone outgoing with a sense of humour and the desire to still be a little crazy sometimes. I like being treated like a woman; I appreciate doors being opened for me and a reassuring hand at my back. Actually, the answer to my ideal match is, I'll know when it happens.

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Royston, Hertfordshire, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
69
Star sign:
Aries
Height:
5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Occasionally
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Atheist

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district SG8 (Royston)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
58 - 68
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 4" (194cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Well-behaved
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Reading:
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Mystery
Interests:
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Painting; Shopping; Singing; The arts
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I check in once a day
Family size:
I'm an only child
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
On a beach
Retirement plans:
Finally writing that novel
Feelings about using Soul to Soul:
Curious; Jaded
Honesty:
Extremely